Archive - actually adulting

The true cost of keeping it all together

A personal essay on masking, burnout, and the myth of being an easy going autistic

Apr 25

March 2025

publicly claiming your neurodivergence

talking space on neurodiversity and self identification

Mar 5

February 2025

Subtle signs of autism + Tools to understand your brain

If autism was always obvious the rates of late diagnosis wouldn’t be so high.

Feb 25

16:29

wanna come for a walk?

introducing mind over meltdown

Feb 5

October 2024

Why Growing Up Feels Impossible when you're Autistic

The Autism Milestone Paradox

Oct 16, 2024

Unmasking the Truth: The High Cost of Hiding Autism

The autism unmasking paradox

Oct 2, 2024

September 2024

High-Functioning or High Expectations? Rethinking Autism Labels

The Autism Labelling Paradox

Sep 29, 2024

Time Management on Your Terms

The Maebe launch has gone to my head a bit with this one.

Sep 23, 2024

22:27

"That's literally not in the DSM": The problem with autism self-advocacy

The autism self-advocacy paradox

Sep 18, 2024

Autistic Burnout: The Quiet Crisis

One of the most humbling things is realise and accept that you are burnt out, to take accountability for the part you played in getting here and if you…

Sep 14, 2024

22:07

Its just Autism, What are you scared of?

The Autism Integration Paradox

Sep 11, 2024

Lessons from a Late Autism Diagnosis

Listening back, what sound like nerves is actually my brain struggling to function at its norm. I thought about rerecording but this is the reality of…

Sep 7, 2024

21:27

#nojs-banner { position: fixed; bottom: 0; left: 0; padding: 16px 16px 16px 32px; width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; background: red; color: white; font-family: -apple-system, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol"; font-size: 13px; line-height: 13px; } #nojs-banner a { color: inherit; text-decoration: underline; } This site requires JavaScript to run correctly. Please turn on JavaScript or unblock scripts